It has been quite a while since I last wrote. Many years have passed, and I attribute this hiatus to my engagement with microblogging. However, I have come to realize that my expectations as a writer differ from what I have been experiencing. Recently, I have been feeling the urge to write again. Working from home and abstaining from microblogging for several years has limited my opportunities to express my thoughts to a wider audience, leading me to find myself in a position where I have a lot to share.
Having ideas and thoughts but lacking the right audience to express them can be likened to a ripe fruit, full of seeds, stuck on a branch. The freedom bestowed upon us by our land and the education we have received provide us with the strength to think critically. Our experiences and observations of the society around us compel us to contemplate the injustices and inequalities faced by individuals. They also serve as a reminder of our privileged position in comparison to many others in the world.
Most of the time, we find ourselves fixated on those who appear more successful or happier than us within our immediate surroundings. These thoughts often stem from comparisons we make with the society we live in. Rarely do we compare ourselves to those who are underprivileged due to the economic and social conditions inherited from their ancestors. The place of our birth, the society we were raised in, the community we belong to, the language we speak, the state we hail from, our parents, our friends, our gender, the gender we identify with, our socio-economic status, our physical fitness, our disabilities—these factors all play significant roles in our lives. Whether we like it or not, this reality exists.
Discrimination is not solely based on gender, religion, region, country, ethnicity, or economic status. It can also manifest within an individual's perception of themselves. History has repeatedly taught us that wars have no end. When one war concludes, it often gives rise to new divisions that eventually lead to another conflict. Anything that perishes becomes nourishment for that which remains alive. In today's world, many individuals strive to distinguish themselves from others, often engaging in meaningless pursuits. One may witness senseless conflicts, where individuals create situations to manipulate the thoughts of others and defame those who do not align with their beliefs.
Once damage is done, it becomes irreparable. However, those who constantly worry about what others think of them or the image they project will encounter difficulties. It is crucial to let go of expectations and disregard the opinions of others in order to alleviate such concerns. If someone from the Cape of Good Hope harbors negative thoughts about a person living in the mountains of Bhutan, despite their lack of knowledge of one another, it holds no consequence for the individual in the mountains. Their indifference shields them from the impact of such opinions.
Embrace a liberated and contented state of mind, allowing only those within your inner circle to influence you. Gradually expand your circles and position individuals accordingly. Before elevating someone from an outer circle to a more inner one, consider the importance they should hold in your life, their thoughts, and their relationship with you. This discernment should align with the circle they belong to.
Ultimately, your happiness holds utmost importance.
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