Every year, March 8th rolls around with the familiar fanfare of flowers pink color. While these gestures are well-intended, they often miss the mark in addressing the real issues women face daily. Women's Day should be more than a token celebration; it should be a catalyst for meaningful change.
Women deserve fair pay, equal opportunities, and a society that values them beyond stereotypes. The focus should be on creating environments that empower women and policies that support their growth and success. As Serena Williams aptly puts it, "Every woman’s success should be an inspiration to another. We’re strongest when we cheer each other on."
Women's Day should be an opportunity to educate both men and women on the challenges women face in today's world. It's about recognising the barriers to equality and working collectively to dismantle them. This includes addressing issues like gender pay gaps, lack of representation in leadership roles, and societal expectations that limit women's potential.
Consider the story of Malala Yousafzai, who, despite facing immense adversity, has become a global advocate for girls' education. Her journey exemplifies the power of education and the importance of supporting women in their pursuit of knowledge and empowerment.
It's important to acknowledge that sometimes the barriers women face come from within their own gender. There are instances where women may not support each other or may struggle to accept another woman as a leader. This internalised bias can be a significant hurdle. Encouraging women to uplift and support one another is crucial for collective progress. Kasia Gospoś reminds us, "Amazing things happen when women help other women."
We have seen inspiring examples of women supporting women. For instance, the collaboration between Kiran Mazumdar-Shaw, the founder of Biocon, and Sudha Murthy, the chairperson of Infosys Foundation, has led to numerous initiatives that empower women in science and technology1. Their partnership highlights the importance of women lifting each other up.
Another challenge is the pressure some women feel to conform to traditional male leadership styles. In their efforts to be taken seriously, they might adopt behaviours that don't align with their true selves. Authenticity is key; successful women leaders often shine because they embrace their unique qualities and lead with their genuine selves. It's the "womenness" in them, their individual charm and spark that drives their success.
Take the example of Indra Nooyi, the former CEO of PepsiCo, who led with empathy and authenticity, earning global admiration for her leadership. Her approach demonstrates that true leadership comes from being oneself and valuing one's unique strengths. As Indra Nooyi says, "The glass ceiling will go away when women help other women break through that ceiling".
Consider the powerful partnership between Oprah Winfrey and Ava DuVernay. Oprah used her platform to amplify Ava’s storytelling, and together, they’ve reshaped the landscape for Black women in Hollywood. Similarly, Reese Witherspoon and Mindy Kaling's collaboration on "Legally Blonde 3" showcases how women can support each other in creative industries.
The story of Mary Kom, the boxing champion, and her coach, Chhote Lal Yadav, is a testament to the power of mentorship and support. Mary Kom's success is not just her own but also a result of the unwavering support she received from her coach and her community. The support should not be considered as a support from a man, but a support from another human being. We all need support and can support another.
Books like "The Second Sex" by Simone de Beauvoir and "Becoming" by Michelle Obama provide profound insights into the female experience and the importance of authenticity and support among women. "When Women Lead" by Julia Boorstin highlights the stories of over 60 female CEOs, emphasising how women-founded companies thrive through unique leadership styles.
"Seeing Like a Feminist" by Nivedita Menon is a must-read. It provides a comprehensive understanding of feminism in India and discusses various issues that women face in the country. Another notable book is "Why Loiter?" by Shilpa Phadke, Sameera Khan, and Shilpa Ranade, which explores women's right to public spaces in urban India.
Ahilaadevi Thirunavu, an Enterprise Architect for Satellite Communications and a Distinguished Member of Technical Staff at Wipro, has been a strong advocate for women in technology. In her blog post on Medium, she discusses the importance of creating inclusive environments that support women in tech. Her insights highlight the need for mentorship, equal opportunities, and breaking down barriers that women face in the industry.
The celebration of Women's Day should extend beyond March 8th. It should be a year-round commitment to driving change through actions and policies that promote equal partnership and opportunities. This means advocating for workplace equality, supporting women in STEM fields, and ensuring that women have access to education and healthcare.
Let's move beyond one-day celebrations and focus on actions that create lasting impact. This Women's Day, let's commit to making real progress by supporting initiatives that empower women and promote equality. Together, we can build a society where women are valued for their contributions and have the opportunities they deserve.
Happy Women's Day! Let's celebrate by driving change and making a difference.
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